Mfundo yakuti mlongoyo ali ndi chidwi ndi maganizo a mchimwene wake womulera ndi choyamikirika. Ndipo kuwunika kuyenera kwake kuchokera kumalingaliro amunthu momwe angathere. Koma kumufunsa kuti atuluke pamaso pake ndi chinthu chodabwitsa. Iye amutenga iye, sichoncho iye? Msungwana waulesi yekhayu sachita mantha konse - ndizo zomwe akufuna. Anamaliza kutulutsa chithaphwi chonse pamimba pake! Anachiyendetsa icho.
Chabwino chifukwa m'kamwa kokha, ndi m'matako kwambiri. Ndikuganiza kuti chingakhale chabwino kuthamangitsanso mkazi wowoneka bwino kuthako. Ndikuganiza kuti angasangalale nazonso, mutha kuwona momwe amakondera kugonana mwanjira iliyonse.